Friday, November 14, 2008

Her True Love


Stay true to life and learn your lessons.

This life we're given should be perceived as a blessing.

You're only given one chance to do it right.

Love, and all its glory, is worth the fight.


Trust your heart and not your mind.

You heart will lead you to what your mind is looking to find.

Spread your wings and fly like a dove.

Soar as high as the heavens on the wings of her love.


It may be hard to show emotion,

But she's looking for security in your devotion.

Be sure she knows exactly how you feel.

Let her know that this is all real.


She's going through life learning her lessons.

She looks at you as a blessing.

You are the basis of all she knows.

She looks to you each time she feels her love for you grow.


To her, everything seems to change with the tide.

She's trying to be sure your love isn't going to be pushed aside.

You've taught her more than any school lesson.

You are her angel sent with miracles and blessings.


Its hard for her to tell you sometimes,

What lies beneath her rhyming lines.

She tries to show you what's in her heart.

Wanting you to put the pieces together so you'll never be apart.


She's already realized love is like a puzzle.

She's taking it all in stride without any struggle.

She can't always read you like a book.

Your emotions show sometimes in your glaring looks.


But she seeks the words to come out of your mouth.

For the words of your heart to finally come out.

Do you see her eyes as she looks at you?

Everything she has for you will show through.


Look as the time goes by,

She'll faithfully remain by your side.

No matter how long it takes in love's journey,

Or how the winds of change pass us so swiftly...


It's the path we lead and not follow,

That will bring us to our final destination with out sorrow.

Together you'll be able to stand stronger than alone.

And in her heart you'll find a place called home.

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Letting Go

"To let go isn’t to forgot, not to think about, or ignore. It doesn’t leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret. Letting go isn’t about winning or losing. It’s not about pride and it’s not about how you appear, and it’s not obsessing or dwelling on the past. Letting go isn’t blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts, and doesn’t leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness. It’s not about giving in or giving up. Letting go isn’t about loss and it’s not about defeat. To let go is to cherish the memories, but to overcome and move on. It is having an open mind confidence in the future. Letting go is learning and experiencing and growing. To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and made you grow. It’s about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving. Letting go is growing up. It is realizing that the heart can sometimes be the most potent remedy. To let go is to open a door, and to clear a path and set yourself free."

Monday, August 25, 2008

If U Love Someone...

--- ask them for nothing!

If you love someone, ask them for nothing. Don't hold them back from their destiny. Don't keep them from going off in search of their own answers. Don't ask them for commitment. You will know commitment is real when it is something given willingly, and not as something obligatory. Don't ask them for promises. If you are patient, if you have faith, you will know in your heart when the right time for promises has come.And when that time arrives, then you will see that you have both lost nothing by setting each other free, and have instead gained a richer, fuller life, a wealth of experiences, and a stronger certainty of your desires.

But should they not return to you, then life hasn't cheated you because no promises were broken. Your bitterness will not last long, and you will feel thankful and blessed that at the very least, this beautiful soul has colored your life, that knowing them has already made life infinitely more meaningful.

By setting a person free, you run a risk of them not returning. But always remember that you found them beautiful precisely because they were free. People are like sunlight. You can feel their warmth, and their glow, but you can't hold them in your hand and keep them with you forever. People CHOOSE to stay. But a choice is made more meaningful when it is made despite so many other options. "Love has no restrictions and it is through mistakes that sometimes we see the right answer". Because if you love someone, you ask them for nothing and they will come back to you.

~ Hope you learned something from this article!

Monday, August 18, 2008

Love Quotes

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” -The Bible

“So in love the heart surrenders itself entirely to the one being known how to touch it. That being is not selected but recognized and obeyed.” -George Santayana

“If you have it [Love], you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have.”-Sir James M. Barrie

“Love enables you to put your deepest feelings and fears in the palm of you partner's hand, knowing they will be handled with care.”-Carl S. Avery

“You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly.” -Sam Keen

“Love is a gift of one's inner most soul to another so both can be whole.”-Tea Rose

“The magic of the first love is the ignorance that it can never end.” -Disraeli

“Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish it's source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.” -Unknown - Love Quotes

“You have to walk carefully in the beginning of love; the running across fields into your lover’s arms can only come later when you’re sure they won’t laugh if you trip.”-Jonathan Carroll

“They do not love that do not show their love. The course of true love never did run smooth. Love is a familiar. Love is a devil. There is no evil angel but Love.”-William Shakespeare

“At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet.”-Plato

“Love is acceptance. When you love someone ... you take them into your heart, and that is surely why it hurts so much when we lose someone we love, because we lose a part of ourselves.”-Andrew

“How do I love thee? Let me count the ways. I love thee to the depth and breadth and height My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight For the ends of Being and ideal Grace. I love thee freely, as men strive for Right; I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise. I love thee with the passion put to use In my old griefs, and with my childhood's faith. I love thee with a love I seemed to lose With my lost saints—I love thee with the breadth, Smiles, tears, of all my life!—and, if God choose, I shall but love thee better after death.”-Elizabeth Barrett Browning

“True love is when your heart and your mind are saying the same thing."-Leanna L. Bartram

“Lovers' quarrels are the renewal of love.”-Publius Terentius Terence

“To love deeply in one direction makes us more loving in all others.”-Madame Anne Sophie Swetchine

“When a man has once loved a woman he will do anything for her except continue to love her. When one is in love one begins by deceiving oneself. And one ends by deceiving others. This is what the world calls a romance.”-Oscar Wilde

“Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.” -James A. Baldwin

“Let me not to the marriage of true minds Admit impediments. Love is not love Which alters when it alteration finds, Or bends with the remover to remove: O, no! it is an ever-fixed mark, That looks on tempests and is never shaken. It is the star to every wandering bark, Whose worth’s unknown, although his height be taken. Love’s not Time’s fool, though rosy lips and cheeks Within his bending sickle’s compass come; Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks, But bears it out even to the edge of doom, If this be error, and upon me prov’d, I never writ, nor no man ever lov’d.”-William Shakespeare

“Love does not consist in gazing at each other but in looking together in the same direction.”
Antoine de Saint--Exupéry

“We can only learn to love by loving.”-Jean Iris Murdoch

“The hours I spend with you I look upon as sort of a perfumed garden, a dim twilight, and a fountain singing to it ... you and you alone make me feel that I am alive. Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen thee and thou art enough.”-George Moore

“Love talked about can be easily turned aside, but love demonstrated is irresistible.” -W. Stanley Mooneyham

“Two souls with but a single thought, Two hearts that beat as one.”-Maria Lovell


“Love is as much of an object as an obsession, everybody wants it, everybody seeks it, but few ever achieve it, those who do will cherish it, be lost in it, and among all, never ... never forget it.”
-Curtis Judalet

“The love we give away is the only love we keep.”-Elbert Hubbard

“Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness.”-Oliver Wendell Holmes

“Love is something eternal—the aspects may change, but not the essence. There is the same difference in a person before and after he is in love as there is in an unlighted lamp and one that is burning. The lamp was there and it is a good lamp, but now it is shedding light, too, and that is its real function.”-Vincent van Gogh

“For you see, each day I love you more, today more than yesterday and less than tomorrow.”
-Rosemonde Gerard


“Love is the strongest force the world possesses, and yet it is the humblest imaginable.”
-Mahatma Gandhi

“I believe if I should die, and you were to walk near my grave, from the very depths of the earth I would hear your footsteps.”-Benito Perez Galdos

“Immature love says, 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says, 'I need you because I love you.'”-Erich Fromm

“You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back.”-Barbara De Angelis, PhD

“A soul mate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we're pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we're safe in our own paradise. Our soul mate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we're two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we've found the right person. Our soul mate is the one who makes life come to life.”-Richard David Bach

“To love and win is the best thing; to love and lose is the next best thing.”-Maximillian Arturo

“The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread.”-Mother Teresa

“True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen.”-François, Duc de La Rochefoucauld

“We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love.”-Thomas Eugene (Tom) Robbins

“Love is missing someone whenever you're apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you're close in heart.”-Kay Knudsen

“Love is a game that two can play and both win.”-Eva Gabor

“Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.'”-Erich Fromm

“Love is the thing that enables a woman to sing while she mops up the floor after her husband has walked across it in his barn boots.”-Hoosier Farmer

“You will find as you look back upon your life that the moments when you have truly lived are the moments when you have done things in the spirit of love.”.-Henry Drummond

“I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out.”-Elizabeth Barrett Browning

"The best love is the kind that awakens the soul; that makes us reach for more, that plants the fire in our hearts and brings peace to our minds. That's what I hope to give you forever."
-Unknown source

"It takes three seconds to say I love you. Three hours to explain it and a lifetime to prove it."
-Rachel

Silence



I choose to love you in Silence…
For in silence I receive no rejection
Nor should I bother of what it is
That prevents us from being together…
It’s just that we can never be together.
I choose to love you in Loneliness…
For in loneliness no one owns you but I.
I choose to love you from a Distance…
For distance will shield us from pain.
Still, I Love You and I just can’t help but do so.
I choose to kiss you in the wind…
For the wind is gentler than my lips.
I choose to hold you in my Dreams…
For in my dreams, you have no end.
Forever.
That is what you are to me.
In all honesty, I find it hard to believe
That I will ever love somebody
The same way I loved you.

Thursday, August 14, 2008

Sad Love Quotes

Sad love quote # 1

Someone can walk into your life and it is not until after they walk out that you realize that they were even there

Sad love quotes # 2

I hate you...and then I love you...it's like I want to throw you off a cliff....then rush to the bottom to catch you

Sad love quotes # 3

Oh, I shouldn’t care or wonder where and how you are. But I can’t hide this hurt inside my broken heart. I’m fighting back emotions that I’ve never fought before, ‘cause I’m not supposed to love you anymore.

Sad love quotes # 4

Once upon a time I was falling in love, but now I’m only falling apart. - "Total Eclipse of the Heart

Sad love quotes # 5

loving someone.You simply get used to them not being around. The memories are never gone.They just fade a little.

Sad love quotes # 6

When you said i was your shining star,i didnt knjow you meant that i was,the star that stops shining in your eyes...

Sad love quotes # 7

If you hold me too tight, I break free, but if you don't hold me tight enough, I slip away

Sad love quotes # 8

The ones that you love the most are usually the ones that hurt you the most.

Sad love quotes # 9

I could fill a thousand pages telling you how I felt and still you would not understand. So now I leave without a sound, except that of my heart shattering as it hits the ground.

Sad love quotes # 10

Even if my heart should call out your name in the rain. Even if these arms should want to embrace you again. And even if I’m all cried out and no longer in pain... I’ll never fall in love that way again.

Sad love quotes # 11

The tears I wish to wipe away, will run unchecked for another day. Alas, that is the price I pay.

Sad love quotes # 12

Oh, I shouldn’t care or wonder where and how you are. But I can’t hide this hurt inside my broken heart. I’m fighting back emotions that I’ve never fought before, ‘cause I’m not supposed to love you anymore.

Sad love quotes # 13
You have been the treasure in my hand. You have been the one who always stood beside me. So unaware, I foolishly believed that you would always be there. But then there will come a day, when I will turn my head and you will slip away.

Sad love quotes # 14

It hurts the most when you can actually feel your heart breaking.

Sad love quotes # 15

You love to hate the one who loves the one you hate to love.

Sad love quotes # 16

You used to sleep, dreaming about falling in love. Now you lay awake, with him in your arms, unable to fall asleep. Because reality is so much better than those dreams you once had.

Sad love quotes # 17

It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all.

Symptoms of LoveSickness



One Broken Heart


Too Many Unwiped Tears


That E m p t y Feeling


Pain. Lots and lots and lots and lots of pain. So deep it cuts into your very being. Leaving scars that will last long after the pain.


When more time is spent on the person you love than you would ever spend on yourself. Even if they would never give you the same sacrifice, and couldn't care less what your time is spent on.


No matter what you will always believe there is hope. And you despise yourself for it.


When your Heart has been ripped out, and ignored, yet still can't let go.


When you would do anything for your love... Even if it means that you can't love them.


When you try to find new ways to hate them. Because then at least it wouldn't hurt so much.


When everything is out of your control.


When you can't say why you love them, and to you that's the strongest love anyone can ever have.


When you realize that you can never, ever have them...again...


When you have finally hit the lowest low. And no one can bring you up, and anyone who can will never be there.


When you care so much about the person you forget about everything else completely, even your health and wellbeing.


When you sit and write something like this crying to yourself, and wondering why you are so pathetic.


When you can't sleep at night because when you close your eyes, they are standing there to remind you that you are alone.


When you feel all these feelings, but are too afraid to tell them, because you're scared they might not care. And the truth is they probably won't.


When you feel their presence everywhere. But you don't want to because it's just another reminder of how far away they really are.


When the pain is so great, you feel that giving up altogether is th only choice, when really you have so much to live for.


When they have told you that they don't love you. And you would do anything to say those same words...and mean it.


But the only words that you can say are:


I love you, and no matter what happens I will still love you and I still think of you all the time. I know it means nothing to you, but you mean everything to me.


Please if anyone ever falls in love with you and feels this strongly. Don't shrug it off like it is nothing, I'm not asking you to love them back, I'm just asking you to care.


And if anyone ever falls in love with someone this strongly and they don't love you the same way, hold on to every last bit of sanity you have. Don't let it completely ruin who you are. You are a wonderful person and can pull through. You will have some very rough times. But, it will get better...


I hope. At least that's what I've been told.